Continuing the pregnancy and parenting
Choosing to continue your pregnancy and become a parent is a significant decision. Whether you're considering this option or have already decided, here's what might be helpful to know.
Things to consider
Parenting an unplanned child can be both challenging and rewarding. Some questions that might help you think through this:
- What does your support system look like? (Partner, family, friends)
- How do you feel about your current financial situation and job stability?
- What are your feelings about becoming a parent at this point in your life?
- Are there practical matters like housing that would need to be addressed?
Prenatal care in Singapore
If you choose to continue the pregnancy, prenatal care is important for your health and the baby's development.
Where to go
- Polyclinics — Affordable first-line care and referrals
- KK Women's and Children's Hospital — Comprehensive maternity services
- National University Hospital — Women's health services
- Private gynaecologists — If you prefer private care
Early prenatal care (ideally in the first trimester) helps ensure a healthy pregnancy. Your doctor will schedule regular check-ups to monitor your health and the baby's development.
Support available in Singapore
Financial support
- Baby Bonus Scheme — Cash gift and Child Development Account
- MediSave for maternity — Can be used for prenatal and delivery expenses
- Government-paid maternity leave — 16 weeks for eligible mothers
- Working Mother's Child Relief — Tax relief for working mothers
Practical support
- Safe Place (Lakeside Family Services) — Temporary housing, counselling, baby essentials
- SPIN (Single Parents Inform) — Support network for single parents
- Family Service Centres — Counselling and practical assistance
Emotional support
- aLife — Non-judgmental pregnancy counselling
- Mindline 1771 — 24-hour mental health support
- BABES — For young parents (21 and under)
Single parenting considerations
If you would be parenting alone, there are some additional things to consider:
- Building a support network of family and friends
- Understanding your legal rights and the father's legal responsibilities
- Connecting with other single parents through support groups like SPIN
- Planning for childcare arrangements when you return to work
Many people successfully raise children as single parents. Having a realistic plan and good support can make a significant difference.
Want to explore other options or need to talk through your thoughts?